It hurts for guys to sleep with a virgin.- actor Baaj Adebule

“I don’t want to marry a virgin, because first, obviously, you will have to do the 'disvirgining,' which is something I’ve been through before and it is quite traumatic," he began.

He continued, saying: "Obviously, because she is the one going through it, the lady is the only one who comes to mind when people think about it. But no one gives the guy's ordeal and what it takes to do it any thought. For a male, it's a terribly awful experience.

Adebule emphasized how crucial it is to take into account both viewpoints while having conversations regarding virginity. He continued by expressing empathy and admitting that, although the woman's experience is typically the center of attention, the emotional and psychological effects on the guy during these times are sometimes overlooked.

Adebule discussed being proud of one's decisions when the subject of pride came up, drawing comparisons between being a virgin and accomplishments like staying physically active. He said he agrees that the discipline is something to be proud of, even though he won't marry a virgin.

"I think being a virgin is something you can be proud of as is the case of a person who works out and looks pretty good, she should be proud of that. So if it's not something that is easy to achieve and takes discipline, then it's something to be proud of," he concluded.